Cheerleaders – Do They Always Help?

“Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best. Wherever you go, you will top all the rest. Except when you don’t. Because, sometimes, you won’t. I’m sorry to say so but, sadly, it’s true that Bang-ups and Hang-ups can happen to you.” - Oh, the Places You'll Go! (Dr Seuss) I was a very … Continue reading Cheerleaders – Do They Always Help?

Consider Before You Compare

"My life happens on occasion to suck beyond the telling of it. Sometimes more than I can handle. And it’s not just mine. Every single person down there is ignoring your pain because they’re too busy with their own. The beautiful ones. The popular ones. The guys that pick on you. Everyone. If you could … Continue reading Consider Before You Compare

Cycling Without Stabilisers

A mentor of mine recently commented on the style of a mentor/mentee relationship. Mentors enjoy guiding their mentees and showing them the ropes. But long term, they expect their mentees to champion them! Once that have passed on the tricks of the trade; they expect not to be constantly contacted with the same requests, rather … Continue reading Cycling Without Stabilisers